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How the sixteen values appear in film, TV, books, music, myth, history, and art.

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Devotion · OACD
music 1960

At Last

Etta James. The relief of devotion finally met - the weight of having waited and the beauty of arrival.

Devotion · OACD
music 1985

Forever Young

Alphaville. The devotion of a parent - the wish you cannot stop making for someone you cannot fully protect.

Devotion · OACD
music 2008

The Book of Love

Peter Gabriel's version. Devotion in its most stripped-down form - presence, attention, the willingness to stay.

Devotion · OACD
music 2008

You Are the Best Thing

Ray LaMontagne. Devotion as quiet certainty. Not grand gesture - steady, warm, unwavering.

Devotion · OACD
music 1993

Have I Told You Lately

Rod Stewart. Devotion stated plainly, without performance. The simple accounting of what another person has meant, said directly to their face.

Devotion · OACD
music 1961

Can't Help Falling in Love

Elvis Presley. Devotion as surrender - wise men say only fools rush in, and the singer rushes in anyway. The admission that love is not a decision you make but a recognition you arrive at.

Connection · OACF
music 1965

Yesterday

The Beatles. Connection lost - the most covered song in history because everyone has lost something they were not ready to lose.

Connection · OACF
music 1988

Fast Car

Tracy Chapman. Two people trying to drive toward a life together. Connection as the only plan worth having.

Connection · OACF
music 1969

Here Comes the Sun

George Harrison. Connection as relief - the arrival of warmth after a long, cold, lonely season.

Connection · OACF
music 2003

The Blower's Daughter

Damien Rice. Connection that doesn't know how to end. The kind of song that makes you feel you've never been alone.

Connection · OACF
music 1987

With or Without You

U2. Connection as the thing you cannot live inside and cannot live without - the push and pull of two people so thoroughly tangled in each other that separation is its own kind of damage.

Trust · OAJD
music 1961

Stand by Me

Ben E. King. The trust of knowing someone is there in the dark - the feeling of a reliable human presence.

Trust · OAJD
music 1972

Lean on Me

Bill Withers. The explicit architecture of mutual trust: I'll be there for you, you'll be there for me.

Trust · OAJD
music 1970

With a Little Help from My Friends

The Beatles. The trust that you don't have to do it alone - and the relief that this is true.

Trust · OAJD
music 1970

I'll Be There

The Jackson 5. A promise made with full conviction. Trust as a lyric and a pledge.

Trust · OAJD
music 2002

The Scientist

Coldplay. The aftermath of trust broken - going back to the start to understand where it went wrong. Trust examined in ruins, with honesty about whose fault the wreckage is.