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Peter Gabriel's version. Devotion in its most stripped-down form - presence, attention, the willingness to stay.

Ray LaMontagne. Devotion as quiet certainty. Not grand gesture - steady, warm, unwavering.

Richard and Mildred Loving moved to Washington to marry, then spent nine years fighting for the right to live together in their home state of Virginia. Their devotion outlasted every law designed to extinguish it.

Two figures wrapped in gold, one holding the other's face. The world outside does not exist. Devotion as total enclosure - the moment when nothing else matters and you are not pretending otherwise.

A mother holding a child over a basin, washing her feet with complete attention. Devotion as the ordinary act of tending - intimate, unhurried, entirely focused on the small body in her hands.

Rod Stewart. Devotion stated plainly, without performance. The simple accounting of what another person has meant, said directly to their face.

Nurses and nuns delivering babies in the East End of London in the 1950s. Devotion as vocation - the women who show up at 3am not because they must but because this is what they are.

The end of a marriage between two people who still love each other. Devotion's complicated terminus - the people you have loved most completely are the ones who can hurt you most specifically.

Elvis Presley. Devotion as surrender - wise men say only fools rush in, and the singer rushes in anyway. The admission that love is not a decision you make but a recognition you arrive at.

Six men walking toward their execution to save their city, each carrying the weight differently. Devotion as collective sacrifice - six separate inward experiences of the same terrible act of love.

A queen who volunteers to die in place of her husband when no one else will. Devotion at its most extreme - the myth Euripides and Rilke both returned to because it asks where devotion ends and self-erasure begins.

Neurosurgeon Paul Kalanithi, dying of lung cancer at 36, writing about what devotion to work and family means when the future forecloses. Devotion as the question you answer differently once you know how much time you have.