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How the sixteen values appear in film, TV, books, music, myth, history, and art.

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Connection · OACF
film 2003

Lost in Translation

Connection that arrives between two strangers in a foreign city, unasked for and completely real. The thing that happens when you stop performing.

Connection · OACF
film 2017

Call Me by Your Name

The full force of connection - the beauty and devastation of being completely seen by another person.

Connection · OACF
film 2013

Her

A man falls in love with an operating system. A film about what genuine connection actually requires - and what it reveals about loneliness.

Connection · OACF
film 1994

The Shawshank Redemption

Andy and Red's friendship - connection that survives the attempt of an institution to destroy every form of it.

Connection · OACF
film 2001

Y Tu Mamá También

The intensity of connection before life separates people who weren't ready for it to end.

Connection · OACF
tv 1994

Friends

Twenty-five years of cultural attachment to the idea that chosen family is family. The show about connection as survival.

Connection · OACF
tv 2019

Fleabag

Connection that breaks through every wall she builds. The Priest and Fleabag's wordless acknowledgment of each other across an impossible gap.

Connection · OACF
book 1984

The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Milan Kundera on connection and weight - the heaviness of real love, the lightness of relationships that don't ask enough.

Connection · OACF
book 2018

Normal People

Sally Rooney on the painful pull of connection across class and time - two people who keep finding each other.

Connection · OACF
book 1998

The Hours

Michael Cunningham threading three women across time, connected through a novel neither of them wrote. Connection across impossibility.

Connection · OACF
myth

Castor and Pollux

Twin brothers, one mortal and one immortal, who take turns in the underworld for each other. Connection that makes death negotiable.

Connection · OACF
myth

David and Jonathan

In the Hebrew Bible: "a love surpassing the love of women." The most complete portrait of connection in the ancient world.

Connection · OACF
history 1920

Stein's Paris Salon

Gertrude Stein gathering Hemingway, Picasso, and Fitzgerald into genuine creative connection. A room that changed what art became.

Connection · OACF
history 1969

Stonewall

The Stonewall Inn regulars - connection across marginalization, community forged under pressure.

Connection · OACF
music 1965

Yesterday

The Beatles. Connection lost - the most covered song in history because everyone has lost something they were not ready to lose.

Connection · OACF
music 1988

Fast Car

Tracy Chapman. Two people trying to drive toward a life together. Connection as the only plan worth having.